

Last night we met a group of nice French guys also on vacation in Miami, and as most people do these days - we found them on Tinder. The evening was lovely and we had a great time but inevitably the end of the night turned into an awkward tug and pull of them expecting sex and us not wanting to. Which then turned into “fine I see how it is you’re just using us for drinks.” But when we had offered to put our cards in at dinner they were refused. So seriously, what’s a girl to do if she’s not interested in casual sex? I get to express my sexuality and receive “validation” through camming and dancing so I don’t need the quick fix of a one night stand. It’s not that I never have random hookups or sleep with people on a first date, but unless I’m really attracted to them I don’t do it out of boredom or guilt. I do it because I want to. I guess it’s just the fact that they were spoiled and immature but I’ve experienced it with older men too. Do you expect automatically if a girl swipes right on Tinder that they’re DTF??