This is my last day in Miami before I take off to Europe! We..
Added 2020-03-02 14:25:18 +0000 UTCThis is my last day in Miami before I take off to Europe! We had an amazing day on the boat yesterday with some friends and I’m excited to get to Europe and see my dad and grandparents. I had sort of a sad conversation with a guy I was seeing before I left LA. He said that he couldn’t get over what I do for work, but at the same time didn’t want a “serious relationship” so that he could keep seeing other people while I remained romantically/sexually exclusive to him. I understand that it would be difficult for most men to accept my work, but it’s just as difficult for me to accept non monogamy in a relationship and I often feel that this is completely overlooked because of “social norms” and the fact that women and men are nowhere near equal on the sexual playing field yet. He asked if we could keep our personal relationship but not be connected on social media because I use mine as a marketing channel for my work and he uses his to document his life (including other dates and women) and it makes both of us sad. I declined and we ended things, which makes me both relieved and a little disappointed... but at the end of the day I know that what I’m doing is bigger than just sex work and that somewhere out there is a person who will feel honored that they’re the only one who gets intimate access to me. Or maybe they won’t be the only one and we will decide that together, but it’s not fair that I’m not allowed intimacy outside of work because I don’t feel romantically fulfilled through work. Ok rant over thanks for listening if you feel like sending me a friendly DM or two it would make my day ☺️☺️
